Legal Question in Family Law in Canada
Who gets the house/who moves out
I have been married for nearly 8 years. We get along, but there is no love. I want more out of life and I want to seperate and eventually divorce my husband. We have no children, last year we bought a house together, and I want to know who can stay in the house. How do I get him to leave. He is an alcoholic who cannot afford the mortgage on his own. I can.
What steps can I take, if and when he refuses to move out. There is no adultery in our marriage.
1 Answer from Attorneys
Re: Who gets the house/who moves out
You may apply to the court for a divorce or a declaration that you and your husband have no reasonable prospect of reconciliation; alternatively you and your husband may enter into a separation agreement that determines the issue (if you can agree). Upon any of the foregoing occurring either of you can apply for a division f all of the assets (not just the house) and for spousal support from the other. There is no rule that specifies who "gets" the house; it will be divided by each of you receiving a portion of the equity, and if neither can afford to buy the other out, usually a court will order it sold. A division of the assets usually has nothing to do with whether or not there is to be spousal support.If you can nnotagree as to who will stay in the house, the Court will determine the equity you have, and normally will allow one of you to buy out the other by paying the other's share of the equity to the one moving out. You should both consider counselling to assist in deciding if the marriage is truly over, and if it is, then to assist in a peacable separation. You should seek the advice of a lawyer who can examine the issues in depth. Many lawyers provide an initial interview at no cost, so that you can better see what the benefits, liabilities and cost may be.