Legal Question in Family Law in Colorado
Adult child seeking to adopt sibling from parents
My parents are mentally abusive, controlling and restrictive. Case in point, I wasn't allowed out of the house for 2 1/2 years for "rebelliousness" but in actuality I maintained an "A" average in high school while working full-time.I was suicidal and had an eating disorder while in their care and my two siblings in high school are both suicidal and want our stepfather to die. I'm especially concerned because he's an alcoholic and recently bought two guns with my mother's permission. Things won't change because my mother exercises poor judgement regarding men and has a history of jeopardizing her children for them. My brother is 15 and wants to move out, so how can we go about getting him emancipated within the next year? Also, my youngest sister is 7 and I fear for her safety and would like to adopt her when she's 10. What's the feasibility of this if I'm 21 at the time, and how would I go about making a case in such a subjective issue?
2 Answers from Attorneys
Re: Adult child seeking to adopt sibling from parents
You have posed a most difficult question with clarity and maturity. I'm sorry you have to grow up so fast and face this challenge at such an early age. I wish you and your brother and sisters well.
I would make a list of all adults who know of the abuse within your family. I would approach them and ask their help in establishing that living under these conditions is not in the best interests of the children who are now doing so.
If you have support in this area, I would then consult with your local Children's Court attorney, or the public defender, or a private lawyer referred by your local bar association. Do not hesitate to call them as many lawyers take cases such as this at little or no cost just to rectify the human suffering and injustice involved.
It is possible for children to "divorce" their parents. It is more usual for local authorities such as Child Protective Services to take over and conduct an investigation and evaluation.
I recommend you get a private evaluation of your position from a private lawyer after you have determined what support you will get from family and friends. S/he can advise you of the next steps before you involve government, which is not always a happy outcome. Initial consultations and case evaluations are usually at no cost - ask.
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Re: Adult child seeking to adopt sibling from parents
Mr. Apinwall's response is very appropriate. Since you are in CO, I can do nothing to help you because I am only licensed in TX. GOOD LUCK!
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