Legal Question in Family Law in Colorado
Child Support and Paternity Testing
My boyfriend supposedly has two kids from a previous relationship in CO (we live in CA). He has no contact with them for various reasons and yesterday received child support papers. He is unsure if he is really the father of the kids and in the forms it says he can ask for paternity testing, does that mean that he will have to go to CO to have the tests done? Also, he spoke with the kids mother and she never filed. Since she is the one who would be collecting from Social Services, shouldnt she have a say so in the filing of the papers? As agreed by both the mother and father of the kids, they did not want child support or any kind of agency involved. Is there anyway of getting this turned around? What is the first and best thing to do? Do we need to get an attorney? By the way did I already mention that we have two kids already? Please help, I am very concerned! Thanks.
2 Answers from Attorneys
Re: Child Support and Paternity Testing
The response from Mr. Johnson is accurate. To that I would add that the court will not likely recognize as valid an agreement between the parents that there will be no child support. The court considers child support the property of the child, not the parents and, therefore, adheres to the child support guidelines rather than an agreement between the parents. At this point, the state is helping to pay for what may be your boyfriend's children. The state wants its money back; therefore, it will pursue him for child support regardless of what the parents want. Additionally, the agreement is not likely enforceable as between the parents. While the mother may be saying at this point she does not want child support, she can always change her mind. There are cases of custodial parents seeking child support, including back child support, after many years of "agreement" not to (and even grown children seeking past support from non-custodial parents) who have received awards in the hundreds of thousands of dollars. Your boyfriend should address this issue sooner than later.
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Re: Child Support and Paternity Testing
He will not have to go to Colorado for the paternity test. His sample of DNA can be collected in California. When she applied for welfare she assigned her right to collect child support to the state. She has no control over the request that he pay child support. If he is the father he will have to pay some child support. The amount he pays will depend upon his income and the amount of contact he has with the children. He should get a hardship deduction for the the children he has with you. The amount of the hardship deduction will depend upon a number of factors. You should gather up income and expense information and consult with an attorney.