Legal Question in Family Law in Colorado

Re: Mentally Abusive ex-boyfriend

The scenario you are describing is a familiar one, that of the cycle of violence. In brief, one of the parties threatens or harms the other party, they split up, and then the other party says he's sorry and won't ever do it again. The next time something happens, though, it's generally a little bit more violent or threatening. It sounds like this may be happening in your situation, and I would urge you to get help in this area of your life, such as contacting a local battered womens' shelter or a law enforcement agency who might be able to refer you to another agency that might be able to assist you.

From a legal standpoint, you may be able to apply for a protection order. Generally, in order to get a permanent protection order, you must be able to show to the Judge that you are in threat of physical harm if the order does not enter, however it also depends on what Judge you have as to how lenient they may be.

If nothing else, I strongly encourage you to reach out to someone who can help you get out of this relationship before it does turn violent. Please feel free to contact us if you would like to discuss get a restraining order.

Best of luck to you.

Sincerely,

Christine C. Nierenz, Esq.