Legal Question in Criminal Law in Florida

Being taken to court for investigating a cheater

I found out that my male friend with whom I've had a long distance relationship, has been cheating. I had the opportunity to secretly viewing his huge database of women's names on his cell phone while he slept. I have contacted a few of these women to alert them of his behaviour. He apparently discovered my activity and is now threatening criminal and civil charges against me, citing harassment and stalking charges. I stopped by his office once to say goodbye to him after visiting him recently. Is that stalking? I have never harassed him in any way. Does he really have a case against me b/c of my suspicion and distrust of his own activities? If so, what options do I have?


Asked on 11/01/07, 2:16 pm

2 Answers from Attorneys
Edward J. Chandler Law Office of Edward J. Chandler, P.A.

Re: Being taken to court for investigating a cheater

Stalking is governed by F.S. 784.048. It is defined as any person who willfully, maliciously and repeatedly follows, harasses, or cyberstalks another commits the offense of staking. This is a misdemeanor. If it is done with a threat and intent to place that person in fear of death or bodily harm, it is a felony.

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Answered on 11/13/07, 12:36 pm
Scott R. Jay Law Offices of Scott R. Jay

Re: Being taken to court for investigating a cheater

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It is doubtful that he has a case based on the facts you provided. If there is more to the story, then my answer might be different. Your best option would be to stay far away from this man. Certainly, you should want nothing further to do with him, and if you do visit him or make contact again, he will only have more to bolster any accusations.

Scott R. Jay, Esq.

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Answered on 11/02/07, 12:07 am


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