Legal Question in Discrimination Law in Florida
Discriminatory Statements Made By Employer - I think
I have been working for my company for 4 years, I am the assist to the CEO/Owner. There is no one higher than he. Over the past several years, he has made many comments about my weight and funny enough, I'm really not that big. He asked me once, in front of my co-worker (who's built like a super model ''can't you look like her, can't you get skinny like ________?'' My poor friend and co-worker started crying, as she walked away, because she was put in the middle of it and because she knew that it hurt my feelings. The other day, he said, ''now I don't want you to get sensitive on me, but the other night I was having dinner with (our travel agent) and she asked about you. She said that you were great over the phone but wanted to know what you looked like. I told her 'eh, she's just average.''' And then he said, ''Well you are.. now don't get sensitive, I don't think even Tamira is attractive.'' Today, he brought me an issue of the Wall Street Journal and told me to read the ad about Plus Size women, with this s*&t eating grin on his face. I told him why, I don't wear plus sizes, he said, ''you don't?'' I said, ''Uh.. no, I wear normal ones, Sir.''
What are my rights re: this? And what can I do?
Thank you very much.
1 Answer from Attorneys
Re: Discriminatory Statements Made By Employer - I think
Quite frankly, this is a mess since the CEO is the owner and there is no one to tell him to straighten out.
First, his behavior is clearly inappropriate and has created a hostile environment. If there are at least 15 employees, this is illegal uinder Title VII, the federal anti-discrmination law. If not, the company probably still comes under state or local law.
So, aside from ignoring it, there are three basic options. Ask for a private meeting and explain to him that you object to the personal comments, they are probably illegal, and should stop. Be diplomatic and let him know you are not looking to start a fight, do not want to lose your job, but do need to let him know how you feel.
If the other woman is willing to join you in speaking with him, or anyone else, that would be helpful.
If you do that, he is not allowed to fire you or take action in retaliation. If he does, you can file a complaint for free either with the EEOC or a local human rights office. (By confronting him, you should expect a level of discomfort if not downright hostility and even discharge.)
Second, you could in fact file a complaint with those offices right away. They will investigate and if they find a legal violation, try to reach a settlement for you. In this case, that would be an agreement by the CEO to cease the wrongful behavior. YOu could try to get monetary damages as well, but it does not sound as if the situaion is bad enough to justify much of an award if any at all.
Third, you could hire an attorney to send a letter laying out the above and demanding that the boss cease the illegal activity.
There are no easy answers here since it is the CEO who must be dealt with directly and he undoubtedly will take offense (ironically enough). Of course, if you want to quit, that makes it easier to take action. In that case, though, you have to give him the option of setting things right.
If there happens to be a policy on sexual harassment, read it and follow it if you want to "report" the incident. Again, I imagine it is the CEO you will have to deal with.
If you want to hire an attorney, or just review the matter, please call me for a free consultation.
Good luck.
Jeff Sheldon
Jeffrey L. Sheldon, Esquire
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