Legal Question in Family Law in Florida

The dissolution of divorce probably stated in the order you were to do this - so NO. Secondly, you could call your own company that you work with and ask them to prepare papers to finalize this - they should not charge you to do this. As to her lawyer, if ex wants her to do it, then have ex pay for it

Did your court order or settlement agreement say that you would be responsible for the QDRO? If so, you will probably either have to pay the other lawyer or get another lawyer to prepare the QDRO at your expense. If the agreement didn't say, then the QDRO is her problem, and you shouldn't have to pay the fee. I doubt there is any way of getting out of the QDRO if it's in your court order or your agreement, though.