Legal Question in Family Law in Florida
My husband has once again told me he wants a divorce. Only been married two years no kids but I've been a stay at home mom for his two young children. I gave him over 40000 dollars over the four years we were together. Now not working no money other than him telling me we can do this the easy way and I just give you half or the hard way and get lawywrrs. He is verbally abusive and his daughter who he claims all I go is correct her has been both verbally and psyically abusive to me and her brother throughout the last two years to me. Longer to him. We just moved from NV where the police have a record of her being a problem child and documented pictures of the last time she beat on me. He is a retired cops and has and knows how to work the law in his favor. His daughter will lie too. I'm beat down emotionally and mentally them telling g me my menopause has made me the crazy one. That I go excessive spending....I buy things for his children. Lot of alcohol consumption on his part the last two years and gets verbally mean and then when I say don't talk to me in that manner I get yelled at more. I've gone to counseling but I'm at a no win situation. He once agreed to put me up in an apt and support me for a year now he says he never said that so I'm afraid I'm going to now loose everything have no where to go with my dog and have no money. He didn't want me to work before then tells me to get a job...I do then he days that's not good enough or one we can afford the driving to it doesn't pay enough turn it down.... I need help or advice on what to do. I came in with money now forced to leave with barely anything a d no where or how to go and support myself
2 Answers from Attorneys
Too much to talk about here, arrange to consult with a lawyer.
Two years of marriage is not much to go on. You may have contributed $4,000.00 but you have lived free from work and on his dime for two years. The best you can do is leave and stop being his maid. let him file for divorce. If you go back to NV and he does not file within 6 months, then you file and get rid of him. You will need to establish residency in the state you move to. If you stay in Florida, he will hound you and make your life miserable. since you have no income, you can apply for a pro bono(free) attorney in the county you live. In the meantime you will need to find a place. Since you stated you are being abused, call Sulzbacher - they will help you find a place to live and help you get your divorce and a job.