Legal Question in Family Law in Florida
My ex and I have separated after 7 years and 2 kids. She kicked me out and now has a boyfriend staying with her and the kids a few nights a week. she said she didn't want to seek child support and didn't want anything from me. now, i'm seeing a woman and she says my kids aren't allowed around her. I would like to seek joint custody of my children. I don't know how to proceed. She has previously left me and the children around 3 years ago for four months. She came to see the children, but didn't help me financially at any point during that time. The kids never spent a night with her during the four month stent either. Now she wants to take me to the cleaners. What should I do to protect my kids and myself? I don't have a lot of money for a long battle. I'm a good father and have seen the kids more than regularly and speak to them every day. What should be my course of action. By the way, we live in Florida.
1 Answer from Attorneys
First, you should get a lawyer. Then, file your divorce and ask for custody and child support. You may end up with 50/50 custody or only visitation and paying support (she's not allowed to waive support), but you should start out with asking for the kids.