Legal Question in Family Law in Florida

Wife asking for divorce - Should I retain a lawyer?

My wife is asking for a divorce, based on that she just doesn't want to be married to me anymore. It has been 18 years and we have 2 children. We want to do this civilly, and not incur high attorney fees with 2 lawyers fighting things out in court. I believe we can work on the financial agreements fairly with a mediator or lawyer, but I am concerned that I should be the one to retain the person in order to protect my rights. We live in Florida. She had admitted to having an affair a few months ago, although I was told I shouldn't bring that us during any negotiations - not totally she why though. Then I have questions about child support - is there a good chance I will be responsible for paying any, given the fact that they will live with her and that she has made 3 times what I make for most of our marriage? And in situations like this, where I have helped support her career for years, might I be entitled to any alimony? So, my main question now is - given my circumstances - should a retain an atorney on my own? Is a mediator a feasible option? I'm I protecting myself in any way by filing the petition for divorce myself? Thnk you very much for any help with this difficult process.


Asked on 4/20/09, 9:17 am

1 Answer from Attorneys
William Gwaltney William W. Gwaltney, Attorneys at Law

Re: Wife asking for divorce - Should I retain a lawyer?

You're asking a room full of lawyers whether you need an attorney. Most would probably simply answer YES. However, the decision to hire an attorney is one that only you can make.

The situation you describe should really be discussed in more detail with an attorney, for at least a thorough consultation. Whether you choose to hire him or her after the consultation is up to you, but having a professional evaluate your specific situation is advisable, and usually worth any small consultation fee you may have to pay.

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Answered on 4/20/09, 1:30 pm


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