Legal Question in Sexual Harassment in Florida
I, along with other women in our church, have been sexually harassesd by a male member(Lay
leader in our church). Three of us wrote statements and spoke with our Pastor about this back
in September of 2009. We were promised a safe church. In my case, the harasser threatened
my husband when I rejected him.
They sent a certified letter to him informing him of these accusations, but he did not sign for it
or pick it up. Nothing else has been done since. In Dec., my husband was hospitalized for
an emergency bypass and heart valve replacement. As I was alone in the house, we chose not
to tell the church at large, due to fear of retaliation. A week after surgery, I spoke with Pastor
and co=pastor by phone letting them know of my husband's condition and requested that this
not get out to the congregation at large.
The next day, they sent another certified letter to the harasser. I feel they did this to protect
themselves only, in case he would have harmed either of us.
My questions is this: Must I remain on as a member in this church until (and if) this issue is
settled? I am so angry at this church and wish to leave, but not sure where that will leave me
if I pursue legal avenues in the future. How long should I remain a member, if I stay for these
reasons.
Thank you.
1 Answer from Attorneys
You can leave whenever you want to. It is very unlikely, based upon what you wrote, that you have any claim whatsoever against the church.