Legal Question in Wills and Trusts in Florida

I dont think she can prevent you from visiting the gravesite. How would she know when you are going to stop you? The facility does not have armed guards that ask you where you are going and seek permission. I think you are safe to go. I would obviously not go on dates which are possibly dates when the wife may be there.

I don't believe she can forbid you to visit the grave site as this is a public place and not monitored and would not be considered trespassing in any sense of the word. I would save her notes however and have an attorney address her on that issue as this is a form of libel (statements generally written) and could be slander is she is relaying this type of defamation to others in the family to cause them to oust you in any manner.