Legal Question in Family Law in Georgia

I have been married 17 years to a man who is verbally abusive to myself and the children. Since our first child was born (13 years ago), I have been a stay-at-home mom with no income of my own. After all these years, I finally feel courageous, and plan to tell him I want a divorce. However, I was devastated when I heard from friends that alimony isn't awarded much these days, and that if it is awarded, it is temporary and isn't enough to live on fully. This leaves me with the realization that after giving up a career to raise my children, I will have to find a job (in my forties with no resume!) and get child care? My husband is a successful businessman with an impressive resume whose earnings will only grow, yet I have nothing after doing the hardest job in the world. I feel trapped again. Is it true about alimony, or do I have hope?


Asked on 3/06/13, 11:04 pm

2 Answers from Attorneys

Harold Holcombe Harold D. Holcombe, P.C.

I don't know who you're talking to. Alimony is frequently awarded to marriages of your length. However, alimony is a strange thing, in that judges have a lot of discretion and facts play a vital role in how much and how long. At the least you will get child support and an equitable share of the assets and some spousal support. Even permanent alimony can be awarded in some cases. Yes, you will probably have to get a job, but you might be able to get him to pay for additional training. And, yes, its likely he'll have to pay your entire attorneys fees since he is the one with money. As I stated earlier each judge seems to have their own perspective on alimony and a local family law attorney who knows the judges is your best hedge to get you the best possible amounts. Alimony can be periodic or in lump sum.

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Answered on 3/07/13, 5:48 am
Tahira Piraino Tahira P. Piraino

I agree with Mr. Holcombe. Alimony is difficult to get in a short term marriage. However, with a stay at home wife who quit pursuing a career to raise the children and has stayed home for a number of years, it is a totally different argument. I suggest you schedule a consultation with a family law attorney who can give you better advice than the "people" you have been talking to. Once an attorney reviews the finances, assets and debts, he/she can give you a better understanding of what to expect. A divorce is stressful enough without listening to third party advice from people who do not know the law. Talk to an attorney who can assist you through the process.

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Answered on 3/07/13, 6:02 am


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