Legal Question in Family Law in Georgia
After years of seperation between my ex and my daughter we ALL agree it would be best for my now husband to adopt my daughter. She is happy and well adjusted however certain things bother her, for instance, seeing her scratch her fathers last name off of her stuff and try and write my and my husbands last name. My ex has waited patiently and she is not wanting anything to do with him. He has agreed to do this with his love for her. I have found O.C.G.A. 19-8-6 and have been told that he can sign that and i can use it when we start the adoption process wether it be tomorrow or six months. Just want his to be able to move on and let us have what we need to continue without need of furthur contact. Thanks.
2 Answers from Attorneys
It is wonderful that your husband wants to adopt. Please do not destroy his chances with forms. Adoption law is complex, and probably 95% of attorneys would be unable, without help, to navigate the process successfully. Even if you get the forms right, that is a small piece of the process, and what third party do you have planned to sign a certification that your ex had his rights explained to him?
Wait until you have a lawyer who has adoption experience. A pro se misstep now could prevent what should be a joyous event. Please don't make the mistake! Good luck.
I totally agree with Mr. Ashman. You do not want to do anything to cause the adoption to not to be granted, or fail to do something which would allow the adoption to be challenged at some point in the future. . Judges scrutinize this procedure because it is critical the procedure is done correctly. Forms make it look easy. It isn't. I suggest you immediately consult with an attorney who has experience in adoption law. This is one legal procedure you do not want to try on your own.
If your daughter is having some difficulty with the name change, which may be a manifestation of other emotions, you may want to see a counselor just to help her work through this transition. It sounds as if she is happy and this is in her best interest, however, it is still a major change for her.
Again, get an attorney and congratulations to you and your family.
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