Legal Question in Elder Law in Illinois

My parents are divorcing at age 79 and 83. It has been going on for the past 4 years. There is a house involved that my mother is claiming to be non marital. The sister of my mother is saying no money was exchanged 41 years ago and it was gifted to my mother from her 2 sisters.

I am an only child and my mother is not of sane mind nor has been. I am in the middle of it and being blamed for my father leaving.

My mother has now become ill. She has been in the hospital for the past 8 weeks with problems waling and using her arms due to a fall. She has named my cousins Power of Attorney. I am unable to find out anything about my mom and they have even gone through great lengths of preventing me from getting knowledge of where she is.

I found her and she is not functioning in her mind very well (nor has she been ever but it is much worse). I cannot get any answers from the Dr's. She does not trust me. I contacted my cousins to find out what the plans are with her and they will not reply to me.

What can I do right now to discuss my mother and her well being? I believe she will need to go into a nursing home.


Asked on 3/16/11, 5:22 pm

2 Answers from Attorneys

Sanford M. Martin Sanford M. Martin, P.A.

Based on the information described in your question, your mother may have a legal need for a guardian rather than a POA. That subject as well as the house should be discussed with her, her sister, and others. If your mother is legally incapacitated, a court will appoint a guardian responsible for making life decisions relating to personal, health care, and financial matters. If, as her sister asserts, the house was given to your mother by her family members, it would be excluded from the marital property. However, is the house in sole or joint ownership which may complicate the issue? As an only child, you are a candidate for guardian and an interested person entitled to information about your mother. You are advised to discuss the situation in detail with a local attorney familiar with probate and guardianships.

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Answered on 3/16/11, 6:49 pm
Steve Raminiak Law Offices of Steve Raminiak, P.C.

If your mother was not of sound mind when she signed the Powers of Attorney, then those Powers of Attorney might be set aside in a Guardianship proceeding. As her only child, you are a strong candidate to act as your mother's Guardian. However, if your mother does not Trust you, a Court will probably not appoint you to act as Guardian. Still, the Guardianship process can assist you in a number of different ways, e.g., requiring a regular Accounting process where a Judge can review your mother's finances every year, requiring you to receive an advance copy of each annual Accounting so that you can give the Judge your insight before the Judge rules on it, bonding whoever acts as your mother's fiduciary (which essentially insures your mother from a Guardian's bad acts).

I recommend that you speak with an attorney who is knowledgable in this practice area. I have represented people on both sides of this equation and I am ready to assist you. Feel free to call me to discuss this. I won't charge for the phone call.

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Answered on 3/18/11, 7:40 am


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