Legal Question in Family Law in Illinois

I haven't seen my 35 year old daughter for 10 years. She doesn't want to see me. She just had a baby boy in July and I'm not allowed to see my grandson. Do I have any rights?


Asked on 9/09/10, 2:04 pm

1 Answer from Attorneys

Jonathan Shimberg Shimberg and Crohn, P.C.

This is a quote from a recent article

Grandparent�s rights vary from state to state. In Illinois, the law attempts to balance the traditional deference to a parent�s right to make decisions regarding their children with the reality that in many family settings grandparents are taking on a more active role in rearing grandchildren, often out of necessity, many times due to divorce or death.

While most relationships between grandparents and grandchildren are loving and supported by the parents, there are cases where a parent objects to a relationship between their child and a grandparent. This can occur during a complicated divorce and other reasons. If this happens, there are legal options a grandparent can take to get visitation with their grandchild. Visitation can mean time alone with grandchildren without the child�s parent present. It can be for a few hours, or even overnight.

In Chicago and throughout Illinois a grandparent, great-grand-parent, or sibling, may request visitation with a minor child if a parent unreasonably denies visitation and at least one of the following exists:

The child�s other parent is dead or missing for at least 3 months;

One of the child�s parents is incompetent;

A parent has been in jail for the 3 months before making the request for visitation;

The child�s parents are divorced, legally separated or in the process of getting divorced and at least one parent does not object to the visitation;

The child was born out of wedlock, the child�s parents are not living together, and the requesting grandparent, great-grandparent or sibling is from the child�s maternal side; or

The child was born out of wedlock, the child�s parents are not living together and the requesting grandparent, great-grandparent or sibling is from the child�s paternal side and paternity has been established by a court.

When a grandparent requests visitation, the court will presume that the parent�s decision to deny or limit visitation is proper. This forces the grandparent to prove to the judge that the parent�s denial of visitation is harmful to the child�s mental, emotional, or physical health. If you feel you are wrongfully denied access to your grandchild, contact a Family Law attorney to learn more about your options.

As you can see your rights are minimal

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Answered on 9/15/10, 12:10 pm


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