Legal Question in Family Law in Illinois
Hello again .You asked me to give you more details.My husband and I dont agree on things anymore. We have not gone on a vacation in about 14 years.I want a different life.Well good and bad. I found someone to share that life with me. My husband was not happy about it. Now he is adjusting to my life style.Our daughters are good with this. They like my ( boyfriend). The girls see that at home with their dad I am not happy. With my other significant I am very happy. He makes me feel happy and loved.He is on disibility. So he has little money . We want to live together. But I want to make sure I get money from my soon to be x. I am repersenting myself in court.I have looked in to help. But was told no help until I move out.What can I do? Also if I move in with my (boyfriend) MY ex will have al my belongings. Please help we. And I was on unemployment. Not no more.I am scared what can I do. PLEASE HELP ME !!!!!!!!!
1 Answer from Attorneys
Well you have more problems now. If you are living with someone in a conjugal relationship, you cannot get maintenance. You are still entitled to a portion of the marital assets including any equity in your home, your husband's pension, a share of the furnishings, etc. You don't say whether you are already in court or not but it sounds like you might be. If not, you should probably reconsider your options. Either way, you still need to talk to a lawyer and should do so right away.