Legal Question in Family Law in Illinois
College expenses
I am divorced.My ex has substantially more money than I and is insistiing my son go to an expensive school.When I agreed to my divorce decree,I didn't intend it to mean 15 or 20,000 dollars.I don't have it.Most all of the people I know send their kids to community colleges first and then finish at a 4 year school,with the child helping.{divorce states 1/3 each}Do I have a say in this or do I have to do what she wants?Also,she is paying their {2 sons} share to so this makes me look like the bad guy.But I'm not.I have never missed child support in my life,but I don't have this kind of money.
1 Answer from Attorneys
Re: College expenses
Hello. It is important that you review your divorce decree. In Illinois the law usually says
that each parent is obligated to support their
son or daughter for college based upon their ability to pay at the time the son or daughter is
ready to enter college. Do not worry about whether you look like the bad guy when you have
been prompt with your child support. All of this
should be handled in court. Be careful about
entering into any outside agreements with your
ex-spouse on this issue, until you consult a lawyer. I will be happy to answer any additional
questions that you might have.