Legal Question in Family Law in Illinois

Custody and Divorce

I have a male friend that is not happy in his marriage, his wife threatens to take his son away if he leaves her and tries to get a divorce. She has told him since she had legal custody through the court before they got married she still has legal custody if they get divorced. He is the birth father.Is this true and what can he do?


Asked on 8/26/02, 3:28 am

1 Answer from Attorneys

Zachary Bravos Law Offices of Zachary M. Bravos

Re: Custody and Divorce

Your inquiry states that the court has entered a child custody order, but it doesn�t state the context of the proceeding (e.g., dissolution, paternity, modification, domestic violence, shelter care, guardianship, Uniform Child Custody Jurisdiction Act, etc.), nor the character of the order (e.g., permanent, temporary, custodian under placement by DCFS, etc.). And I am not familiar with what you refer to as "ancilarys." This information might make a big difference. If you had a lawyer in the proceeding where you obtained custody, you should direct your questions to him/her.

You ask what the next step should be to get the children to stay with you. Depending upon the terms and language of the actual court custody order, you may be entitled to simply pick the children up and take them home, and in that regard, depending on the custody order, you might be able to call upon the police to assist you to obtain possession.

No matter what the custody order says, you should never act rashly regarding your children. Indeed, before you do anything which creates a conflict, seek a lawyer�s advice. Child custody matters are serious business. And the hearts, minds, and well-being of the children are also at stake.

As for whether you are entitled to a change of judge because the judge lives near you, we don�t think so. It takes more than that to show that a judge would be biased, interested, or prejudiced.

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Answered on 8/27/02, 12:06 pm


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