Legal Question in Family Law in Illinois

I'm currently going through a divorce, I am in the process of making a visitation schedule for my 21 month old son. Dads days off are twice a week (but rotate) he wants two overnights a week but I think it's best one night. His two days off and one night in between. My lawyer is saying the judge will grant him this? I feel like I'm being pushed into an agreement I don't believe is best for my son. My son is still extending breastfeeding. I haven't weaned him yet so I think two overnights is quite excessive? I need help please


Asked on 4/22/15, 1:27 am

1 Answer from Attorneys
Jonathan Shimberg Shimberg and Crohn, P.C.

You must remember the child is his too. It is important for a child to develop bonds with the father, and one night a week will not do that. Two is not must better, but it is not unreasonable. Frankly many woman use breastfeeding as a subterfuge in an attempt to limit visitation. Judges are aware of this tactic. If the child is not taking other milk, then the judge will suggest pumping milk. It is time to wean.

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Answered on 4/22/15, 4:29 am


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