Legal Question in Family Law in Illinois
when does interfearing become harrassment by ex-wife
I got divorced from my ex-wife almost 8 years ago, and since then she is always interfearing in my life.
She has refused to let me see my kids, tried to get a restraining order on me, went to court with my current wifes ex-husband to help hime custody or their kid. She has made verbal commitments and then breaks them, then tries to make it seem like my fault, calling and causing problems with my current wife to the point where my current wife is ready to leave. Basically if things don't go exactly her way, she starts attacking me in one way or another. So what can I do, if anything to stop her from what I am
beginning to feal is harrassment. Please Help.
1 Answer from Attorneys
Re: when does interfearing become harrassment by ex-wife
You have a serious problem
and I can understand the
strain that this has placed
on your current marriage.
I must assume that there is
a court order outlining the
terms of your visitation. If
your ex-wife violates this,
file or have your attorney
file the appropriate motion,
i.e. motion for rule to show
cause for violation of your
visitation rights. The court
could hold her in contempt
because her actions not only
affect you; they affect the
interest of your children.
As to the phone calls and other harrassment, you can file a charge of telephone harrassment, should your ex-
wife ever call harrassing you
and your current wife. With
the exception of issues concerning your children, close the door on these other
issues where your ex tries
to harrass you. If it continues, get an order of
protection against her,
and make sure that your
allegations are true so that
you will not be guilty of
seeking an order of protection
for a situation not warranting
an order of protection. Play
it safe, when in doubt, take
her to court and tell the
judge. Good Luck.