Legal Question in Family Law in Illinois
I am seeking Child Support from the mother of our three children. I received physical custody of them in January of 2008. I went to the Child Support office here in Chicago and they refuse to assist me. I was told by a employee of Child Support office in Chicago that the mother may be receiving Child Support from one of her other Children Fathers, and that may be the cause as to why they cannot assist me. I have been taking care of my children without the mothers assistance since i received custody of them. I currently have no idea where she works. Her mother recently passed about a month ago and since before then she has not seen and or talked to her children in over a year. This decision was all her doing, considering that she has moved more than three times in the last year i was not able to keep up with her current residence of phone numbers....... My Question is what can I do to get the system to work with me and not against me so I can get my children's mother to assist me in taking care of her children?
1 Answer from Attorneys
Child support is a court mandated payment made by a non-custodial parent to a custodial parent, and it is designed to assist the custodial parent with the costs of raising a child. Many nations around the world have child support laws, because raising a child is believed to be the joint responsibility of the parents, whether or not the parents are still together. It is awarded by the court after the judge has considered factors like the income of the non-custodial parent, along with outstanding expenses borne by both parents. Once the court has ordered child support, the non custodial parent is expected to pay it on a regular basis.
Unfortunately, many parents avoid paying child support, using a variety of justifications. Common excuses for avoiding child support payments include inability to pay, lack of accountability for the money, unwillingness to have the child in the first place, to protest visitation agreements, or a personal conviction that the amount of the award is unfair. The burden of �deadbeat� parents is placed heavily on women, who are more likely to be awarded primary custody, and deadbeat dads are a well understood social phenomenon in most countries. If a non custodial parent feels that an award is unfair, it is his or her responsibility to file a formal claim with the awarding court.
There are a number of options for recovering child support payments from a parent who is shirking on his or her duties. Many parents become frustrated with the process, and turn to a private agency to recover the monies they are owed, but there are legal courses to pursue, most of which are free. The first step is documenting the non-payment with the court that issued the initial child custody order. Employees of the court can work with the parents to try to reach an amicable agreement through mediation, or find the non-custodial parent in contempt of court, which will initiate a legal process to recover the money.
common methods of extracting child support from dead beat parents include garnishing of wages for a lump sum award, wage withholding for regular monthly payments, seizure of or liens on assets, and interception of tax returns. Failure to pay child support can also result in a fine and jail sentence, although this law is rarely enforced. Child support enforcement can also be carried out across state lines, with the court that awarded the payments requesting assistance from a child support agency in another state.