Legal Question in Family Law in Illinois
My wife and I have been married for 4 years. We are now separated with a five month old baby girl. We have been separated for about three months. She now stays with her sister. Up until 3 weeks ago I would go regularly over to my sister in-laws home to see my daughter after work. I was going just about everyday, but they changed my visits to every other day. But while having my last couple of visits my sister in-law started to show her true colors and would get in the middle of me and my wifes discussions. And a few time she would raise her voice at me. The situation was starting to turn bad fast. So I told my wife that I want to take our daughter outside of her sisters house to have my visits. My visits are only about 4 hrs. My wife says I can't take my daughter and that I am welcome to come by the house. But like I said before, I don't feel comfortable in that house and I see it getting ugly fast. And I am trying to protect myself in the future cause I plan to go for custody of my daughter. Does my wife have the right to keep me from taking my daughter for a visit. If not what can I do about it now before I take her to court, because I haven't seen my daughter in three weeks. I feel helpless like I'm at her mercy or something.
1 Answer from Attorneys
The only thing you can do is go to court. Although legally neither you nor your wife has legal, custody of the child, a court would not look kindly on self-help on your part. If your sister in law will not leave, you need to obtain a court order resolving this issue.