Legal Question in Civil Rights Law in India

I am in serious trouble. i am married for 12 years now. i have a girl kid who is 8 years old. 4 years ago i met another girl who is a well known girl to my wife also. i had an affair with her. unfortunately she said to me that she was concieved. i was shocked and dint know what to do. so i decided to take my wife�s help and confessed to her the whole situation. later my wife convinced the girl and made arrangements for aborting her and told her to lead a proper life without any complications since the person who she was involved (me) was already a married man and had his own family. she said yes and did (Aborted) what she has to do. later the girl started blackmailing me and tried to kill herself say for 3 times. then she started saying that we are the ones who killed her child and started cursing us.

mean while in the house my wife started torturing me and asking me all sorts of questions about the sex life i had with her and after a period of tough 6 long months she (my wife) decided not to ask anything about her at all. things went well and i was put in a situation where i was to take care of the other girls life too. i took a separate house and started going there out of compulsion. things turned out black when she was concieved again and there was another child (a male kid) on the 4th of November 2010. on the Jan 13th 2011 my wife came to know about the fact and just walked out of our house and went off to her moms place. unfortunately i had to work in another city and had to leave chennai on the 1st of Feb. from then on she is sticking on to only one thing and that is she never wanted to talk with me or be with me. i have confessed and poured my sincere apologies from the day when she went out of the house. but every thing turned out to be in vain. till date she says that i can only be the father of the kid (girl)and never be her husband again. pls advice me if she will ever come back to me. i love her so much that i cant miss her in life Law Guru. please help me what i should do.


Asked on 7/17/11, 6:04 am

2 Answers from Attorneys
Sanjay Kalra Sanjay Kalra & Associates

You are a great actor . having great time with two women and now saying you love my 1st wife. Do you want me to buy this from you.You have proved that you do not believe in monogamy and i would suggest that divorce your 1st wife before she takes some action against you.

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Answered on 7/17/11, 6:44 am
RAJIV GUPTA (Cell: +91 9811284735) [email protected]

dont sweat. most of the men are not one woman man. you have done mistake after a mistake. if you loved your wife so much, u should have not gone for another girl, and by mistake if you have gone for that other girl, you should not have confessed your extra marital affair to your wife. in this situation, only you can help yourself, not a lawyer.

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Answered on 7/19/11, 3:32 am


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