Legal Question in Family Law in India
I am 8 months married. Now I can not patch up with my husband. He is sex addict & wants to relate physically rather mentally. He says that one get married for this only & this is a very normal thing in married life. It irritated me when i noticed that in other cases he is not responsible other than this. I told him that marriage is not only a physical relation but it is always a mental attachment thorugh which another 50 years we can lead a happy married life. But he is arrogant everytime & refused to listen me. Now I am living with my parents for last 6 months & decided to get divorce. In the mean time he has taken better job in Mumbai & without my conscent joined there. I am living in Kolkata. After joining of 2 months he sent me a mail stating that he has got better opportunity there & wants me to go there. I am a job holder in Kolkata. No verbal communication was there about this. I kept shut. I didnt reply anything. After one month we from our family told him to take mutual divorce. From then he is trying to show me that he is enough responsible.....calls me in intervals of 3-4 days....which is a pure drama. Agin I told him to take divorce...Coz I can't live with such person who is sex addict. Now he & his family is telling that there is no such proofs against him to show in front of court of law. We can't proof anything. Everyday they are giving me threats over phone that they will go for legal case. Now pls suggest me how can i go for divorce.
2 Answers from Attorneys
It is too early to think of divorce. out of eight months of marriage, you had stayed away from your husband for six months; therefore, your accusation that he is a sex addict may not hold good. At times passionate sex is one of the means to show one's love and affection for his wife. You should not take it as an addiction. Try to make adjustments, if you can. otherwise, you may wait.
Seeking divorce in a six month's marriage is not advisable from my side. Talk with your husband and try to resolve the issues (if any). Some times passion towards sex is taken to be love for few.. Dont move in a haste.
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