Legal Question in Family Law in India

Even after 8 years of marriage my wife is completely attached to her parents and her sisters, she has hardly any concern of our relatinship or she is not bothered to have any emotional relationship with me, because of her parents & sisters. She even discusses all and our very personal issues with her sister and parents and come to conclusions on such issues on their advice, there is no room or patience with her to talk to me on such issues, for example some intimate issues and abortion etc. she only discussed with her sister and decided, I was made only a rubber stamp, she blatantly refused to discuss or involve me in such discussions. Her sister even blackmailed me once through SMS that she will file a complaint with mahila manch of character assasination against me and make me lose my job. Very often her parents come to my home shout, scream and quarrel with me my parents to cover up her / their such mistakes. Which is causing lots of tension in my life and unable to concentrate on my job properly. This started from first year of our marriage, from when she was totally not interested in celebrating any festivals, attending functions, going trips/ tours / outings etc. with me, but since she used to engage herself on all such occations with her parents and her sister, denying me of all such happiness. She hardly has any time to talk or share anything with me, whereas she tells each and every small incidents of my house to her parents and her sister. She thinks that much relationship/ interaction with me is sufficient for being or continuing as couples. I appears that she wanted to marry just to show to society that she is also married and have a husband and wants to be completely engagged with her parents without my intervention. Even that she agreed for a child only after some of her relatives started questioning her that whether shehas got any medical problem. She goes to her parents and sisters house at will threathing me of more quarrels/ complaints/ blackmails if I stop or question her. I also have a 7 year old son, these events and bad relationship are having a bad impact on his upbringing also. Her parents and sisters are very irresponsible and erratic, for example even though she had secured very high %age in 10th she was not educated further and put her to job, she was retained without marriage for the sake that they will loose her salary upto 25 years etc. Kindly advice me how to go about, I thing this falls under emotionally deal marriage.

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