Legal Question in Family Law in India

Its been 4 years since we are married and like any other married couple me and my wife have been having sqabbles over the past 4 years. I thought it was normal, and we made up to each other everytime. She has left home abruptly ateast 4 times in the past 1 year and has come back within a week appologising for her behaviour. Recently she repeated this the 5th time and so far has not picked my call / sms or replied to email requests. I also visited her in the office with flowers to get her back home.. but of no use.. when asked for the reasons she says "i will contact you through proper channels"... Yes, we both got physical and she broke my specs and i slapped her twice... But we did reconcile immidiately after which we had a wonderful holiday in Taj Chikmagloor as well... She has been giving all her income to her father since marriage and our family never objected. Very recently i had asked her to stop donating money to her father since we were planning to buy an expensive appartment and she agreed. But to my surprise, her father turned against me and is now poisining my wife with all sorts of things against my family. He instigates quarrels through his daughter on various occassions in the past 3 months. I have never taken her money and have maintained seprate accounts so far. I have enough proof of her father troubling my wife (phone calls, chat sessions) which show that they were harrassing her. My FIL also threatened me many a times to send me to jail... and also has mentioned in one of the chat sessions with my wife to leave me and come and stay with him. I also see that in a recent transactions she has withdrawn and closed the HDFC bank account that i opened for her, in which i deposited 5 lacs. !! After 3 weeks of no news from thier side, what are my options ....I do love my wife but feel that I am being setup by my inlaws.., for the sake of money. Should I lodge a complaint on my FIL?? What are my options if my wife files for a Divorce?

I also sent her an email requesting the reasons for her actions and so far I havent heard anything. please advise. I Feel the moment i objected on giving her money to her father, her father has started playing games with my life.


Asked on 9/26/10, 9:48 pm

1 Answer from Attorneys

G. M. Gupta gmguptaandassociates

serious things .... need planning. keep sending love emails and sms to her. and once she comes back then cut off her from her family and immediately file complaint case against her family regarding threats etc.

its better you consult a matrimonial lawyer for strategy. save your marriage otherwise it will be a hell for you.

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Answered on 9/27/10, 3:35 am


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