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adivice for divorce

I am 29 . i got married in aug-2008. that was love cum arranged.after marriage from the begining he does have any positive opinion on me. he is hiding everything like his bank details ,study certificates. wheere ever he wants to go he will go alone. he is allowing me to talk with a girl also. he will not give any money for my survival. right now i am doing job in hyd. he is in some other place. we dont have kids also. he is making me to suicide, or approach for divorce myself mentally. he doesnot want to take any responsibilities it seems. my company gave me mental support alot. six months back i rejoined in this company. now he is telling come to my place i will tace care of u. if i resigned this job and go there , there is no guarantee that he will not fight with me. then i cannot come back to the same company. very difficult to get the job. he is not allowing to meet his parents also. he did Phd . but still he is not leaving that place where he is staying now. he can get good job in hyderabad. but he is not coming .what to do? Pls help me in this regard

victim


Asked on 7/22/10, 10:29 pm

2 Answers from Attorneys
RAJIV GUPTA (Cell: +91 9811284735) [email protected]

you need to sit and talk out your differences as there is nothing permanent in this world. whether you talk of your relationship with your husband or you talk of your job, both can leave you or you can leave them. you should try n do what is right for you. talk it out with your husband and if you lucky enough, you may enjoy both, your job as well as company of your husband.

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Answered on 7/22/10, 11:01 pm
Sudershan Goel India Law Offices of Sudershan Goel - Advocate

In law your options are too many. If you feel he is "torturing" you, the options are different. If you think there are "irreconciliable differences", the situation needs to be tackled differently.

You need to first make up you mind what you think is the best for you - living with him or separation?

You may me a detailed e-mail for advice after you reached your conclusion.

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Answered on 7/25/10, 6:55 pm


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