Legal Question in Family Law in India
Bank Statement
Can i ask my wife to show me here bank statement as we both are working & i am not taking any thing from my wife in house hold expense. But i am sure that my wife is spending all here salary in here parents house. I am not against this but i should be updated as if i am not hiding any things from my wife then she should also tell me the thruth. As my wife is working & spending around all here salary on here mother & brother. One day she asked help from me to suggest investment plan & when i said pls. show me your bank statement then she refused to do so. Pls. suggest
3 Answers from Attorneys
Re: Bank Statement
Yes you can
Re: Bank Statement
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First of all let me tell you this is not a legal problem.
As far in the relationship of husband and wife you can always ask but you cannot pressurize her which is legally wrong.
I would advise you to discuss the problem and immediately bring a solution on the same day and same minute.
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Re: Bank Statement
The mental tension you are suffering may result into disruption of your family life. The issue is gaining ground in your mind because of "male ego" - making you feel as 'big boss' of the house.
You may need to work it out with her only with love and respect after making her understand the necessity of making a 'home' belonging to the two of you.
You may need to give her space and time to take her decision about not only not spending on her mother and brother but also about sharing it with you. But you should be conscious of the fact that pushing the issue beyond a point may amount to "cruelty" and "domestic violence" and she may seek your criminal prosecution bringing an end of family life.