Legal Question in Family Law in India

you may appear as directed by the court. generally the custody is given in favour of mother unless the father shows that the custody in favour of mother is not in favour of the child.

If there is a plausible reason for non-appearance, you may seek exemption by filing an appropriate application. The custody depends upon age of the child, education, parents financial and social status etc. Welfare of the child is paramount consideration for the court while deciding such issue.