Legal Question in Family Law in India

Dear sir,

I am drafting my problem below , i need your valuable judgment and please mention whose has done the major mistake in this to proceed further.i am in a dilemma and confused whether i can proceed legally as they my wife is currently doing Postal R.D ( agent) and my wife and in laws saying that we cannot send her daughter to stay with me because R.D means 5 year term she cannot come and stay even my wife nodd her head what is father say. please suggest me, or else give your appointment time to come and meet you , what is the consultation fee you charge ?

Marriage was fixed through matrimony website,my self was working on behalf of icici bank personal loans and was earning well, i told a lie that i have completed degree, but i was having arrears,i did not consult my family for marriage, my wife had a brain tumor knowing this i married her, my family members said no for the marriage, and considering my wife health i asked my father in law to see a house near by them,but unfortunately every thing went bad first i got a loan from my father in law of rs 50000 before marriage, because my father was not financially sound to conduct the marriage,to buy dresses and mangal sutra for my wife for that purpose i borrowed from my father in law,without any interest, and i lost my job in icici after marriage and suffered for 6 months without a proper job so i pledged my wife jewels with her permission for 1,00,000, for which i gave a two blank cheque ,with interest from his friend both are state government employees, without a proper job was paying principal and interest , and my father in law threatened me that i will put a case by depositing your cheque ,for not paying the interest and principal, father in law does not believe me in sending my wife for a living . she had a brain tumor before marriage and i married her by knowing this, due to financial problem i pledged my wife jewel including( 150000). they even taken my jewel which they offered me on my marriage , i want a solution to live with my wife, they tortured me like anything because of this me and my wife got fight between, now they don't believe me sending their daughter with me , i want a solution whether to live with her or to divorce her.even my wife nodding her head what his father say . if she comes and stay alone with me i will take care of her, he used abused words to me and to my father, please suggest me what to do and now i have settled 60k out of 1,5 lakhs .they have taken all the things which they offered me on marriage like fridge, TV, washing machines and other house hold furniture's i have even given my wrist watch which they presented me on my marriage, i don't want their money and other things , am not money minded , my father in law gave me the loan through their friend both are in state government my father in law also done BA LLB , i need a solution for this big problem,i want to live with my wife permanently in my place but they are asking to stay near by them, i think this is not fair,please suggest me on this,

even i went for compromise talks and they are not even bothered about their daughters life please suggest me what to do

my father in law says i am not not fit to run a family and even my wife nods her head and she says she will not come to the place where am staying now , they want me to come and stay near them which is quite not possible, i feel shame and i will not get any respect if i stay near them but my wife is not understanding this ...?

even she thinks whats is father says is correct?and even my mother in law is cause for all problems she is screwing for everything.....?

they are not coming for a compromise talks i called once my father in law he replied me my wife is not willing to stay with me and he banged the phone , when my father called him he says something irrelevant and when my elder mother called he even did not respect her, to solve this problem an legal representative from 498a. org called my wife and in law he replied i cannot speak family problem to a third person,

all the efforts taken by me all are failure.

due to irrespective shown by father in law ,my father said let them come will not call him any more or even me don t go there , i cannot lose my respect after this, my father also said that i need self respect even i don't have money .

who can i set as an mediator to solve this problem, other than relative and friends.

No one is interested to speak to my father in law or my mother in law ?

they think that am not capable to run a family life.

they used abused words to my father which he used to me and my father in law and when i asked in front of my wife he said i he is promising that i did not say like that?

Recently i have filed RCR against my wife

on first hearing both my wife and my father in law appeared and we we went for a counseling

on counseling my wife stated that she wants divorce and she is no more interested to live

the reason was am not having any proper job

due to my in law abused me and father with bad and hurt words i did not go and see my daughter and my wife

The counselor asked again do i have any illegal relation ship with some one and do i have bad habit and did i beat her, any dowry, they replied that no

The only mistake i did was i told a lie that i have completed my graduation, before marriage but will complete in this year and bought a loan of 1,00,000 for marriage purpose and even i spent for them only, even i have paid 60000, i don't understand why they want divorce even i have a one year old daughter i am most worried about her future

second hearing came on 29th Jan 2011 but they have not come for the hearing , their advocate appeared and asked for another date.

Please clarify whether the court will issue divorce for this reason,

if not what will the court ask us to do

I think they are forcing us to make for mutual consent for divorce

i would like to live with my wife and daughter

now am working in a reputed company and earning up to run a family

i belong to a middle class family please help me

Regards

Sarathy.V

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