Legal Question in Family Law in India

Dear sir,

Please advice me,and guide me

I have sent a notice to my wife asking her to returnback to matrimonial home, and then we file RCR if no reply from them,

My question is as my wife is a brain tumor cured patient so that reason my in law are not sending my wife to my place and i dont want to go and live near them as they tortured me for money which i borrowed from my in law as a loan, if RCR granted in favour of me, will my wife put any condition and how to over come that, will give my problems that i have faced so far.....am interested to live with her in my place and aslo have a one year daughter , based on my daughter future how to overcome if RCR granted in favour of me ....I have legal notice to my wife 3 days back, and even i dont know whether its delivered or not,

Dear Sir,

Marriage was fixed through matrimony website,my self was working on behalf of icici bank personal loans and was earning well, i told a lie that i have completed degree, but i was having arrears,i did not consult my family for marriage, my wife had a brain tumor knowing this i married her, my family members said no for the marriage, and considering my wife health i asked my father in law to see a house near by them,but unfortunately every thing went bad first i got a loan from my father in law of rs 50000 before marriage, because my father was not financially sound to conduct the marriage,to buy dresses and mangal sutra for my wife for that purpose i borrowed from my father in law,without any interest, and i lost my job in icici after marriage and suffered for 6 months without a proper job so i pledged my wife jewels with her permission for 1,00,000, for which i gave a two blank cheque ,with interest from his friend both are state government employees, without a proper job was paying principal and interest , and my father in law threatened me that i will put a case by depositing your cheque ,for not paying the interest and principal, father in law does not believe me in sending my wife for a living . she had a brain tumor before marriage and i married her by knowing this, due to financial problem i pledged my wife jewel including( 150000). they even taken my jewel which they offered me on my marriage , i want a solution to live with my wife, they tortured me like anything because of this me and my wife got fight between, now they dont believe me sending their daughter with me , i want a solution whether to live with her or to divorce her.even my wife nodding her head what his father say . if she comes and stay alone with me i will take care of her, he used abused words to me and to my father, please suggest me what to do and now i have settled 60k out of 1,5 lakhs .they have taken all the things which they offered me on marriage like fridge, TV, washing machines and other house hold furnitures i have even given my wrist watch which they presented me on my marriage, i dont want their money and other things , am not money minded , my father in law gave me the loan through their friend both are in state government my father in law also done BA LLB , i need a solution for this big problem,i want to live with my wife permanently in my place but they are asking to stay near by them, i think this is not fair,please suggest me on this,

even i went for compromise talks and they are not even bothered about their daughters life please suggest me what to do

Recently i asked suggestion to a lawyer he suggested me to file RCR and but i consulted with my family members they said no for any legal action let them come for solution, please suggest me how to handle this situation, am facing multiple problem in this case

1. I borrowed money

2. they are not allowing my wife to stay with me and on condition they are asking me to come and stay near them

3.they are not respecting my parents when they speak about solution and about compromise

4. Torture from loan lender that i will put your cheque in court

please suggest me on this

I will be more thankful to you.


Asked on 10/08/10, 8:20 am

2 Answers from Attorneys

RAJIV GUPTA (Cell: +91 9811284735) [email protected]

you need to fight against the odds. either compromise or face the trial. there is no third way out.

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Answered on 10/08/10, 11:26 am
Devansh Bhardwaj Devansh Bhardwaj

My friend what Ill suggest you is that since you are intrested in saving your matrimonial life then go for the RCR as soon as possible before it gets too late since all the the efforts made by by now you have gon waste.

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DEVANSH BHARDWAJ

ADVOCATE

LUCKNOW

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Answered on 10/09/10, 8:49 am


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