Legal Question in Family Law in India

Hello, I am from New Delhi, I need some advice regarding my affairs. Me and my boy friend living together from the last four years. My boyfriend is very much matured and sensible. He cares me a lot. I know he had many affairs before I came into his life. And got rid from all of them. He is pretty much open with his life. The issue I am having is that I have found couple of letters of his past girlfriend. I talked to him about this matter but he replied me that he knows how to handle this matter. He acts as in a way that he is not interested with her. But still a few days back I saw again another email of their conversation which was about their affair. What makes me upset is those letters and emails. One thing I can be sure that my man is with me from everyside. Which I feel. But my depression is all about those letters. I don't mind even if he wants to have another relationship and marry someone. But he also says that he cannot live without me. Please advice me how I can handle this issue without troubling him. Everyone one makes mistake. I want myseIf and him to have healthy life. I love him very much. I don't want to loose him. But I want his happiness. I am not sure what he exactly looking for... Just need small advice so that I can save his and my life.


Asked on 3/11/10, 10:30 am

3 Answers from Attorneys

Sudershan Goel India Law Offices of Sudershan Goel - Advocate

Your concerns are well founded and very sensible. Though you ignore his affairs, it is serious if something still continues and he is not faithful to you completely. In the given situation, it may be better to plan your marriage and come out of this "live-in" relationship. You may write e-mail for appropriate opinion, if you more questions.

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Answered on 3/11/10, 10:41 am
Sudershan Goel India Law Offices of Sudershan Goel - Advocate

You may write me complete details about background of the two of you.

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Answered on 3/12/10, 5:49 am

You have to decide to enter into the bond of marriage with that guy.

else you will always be in this situation.

On first step you will ignore this girl then after some time you will got another same situation.

Regards

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Answered on 3/21/10, 4:44 am


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