Legal Question in Family Law in India
divorce
i was married since two years.but got seperated .before marraige it was made clear that i will be settle with my parents.accordingly the bride herself and her parents were ready for it.she was ready to do a lecturers job in a private medical college where i was going to settle with my parents.few days before marraige she started giving indications of not joining the college.but i neglected it as all the arrangements for the marraige were alredy done .so we got married.we stayed for 10-15 days .she got the lecturers where i was to settle .but she refused to join the college saying that she did not want to spoil her carrier.if she did join the college the could had been taking classes of the mbbs students.so i cant understyand how one can spoil the carrier?the job where she does ,does not involve taking the classes ,so i think she is spoiling her carrier by not teaching the students.even her parents changed their words and said she cant leave her govt job.now its not a permanent govt job as she is not mpsc.so her order can be terminated any time.so since two years we had been staying seperated.i wanted to get mutually seperated and told her afetr 2 years when we met ,but she refused .she was ready tio come.but i m not ready.
4 Answers from Attorneys
Re: divorce
The basic question whether you want to continue the married relationship or not. If yes, she seems ready. If no, then in that case, you have no alternative but to initiate divorce proceedings, which, if mutual, may take about six months, if not mutual, may take between 2 to 4 years. The decision is yours.
Re: divorce
Without the consent of your wife, the divorce case by mutual consent cannot be moved. Moreover in your wife is willing to join you hence the matter to file diorce case by mutual consent goes. As regards your stand not to allow your wife to join you, you may file divorce case on the ground of sepration or cruelty if caused by your wife. For further query contect me
Re: divorce
i have replied it by personal mail
Re: divorce
Once she is ready to join the matrimonial home, you cannot seek divorce without valid reasons. Please explain the reasons of your refusal and the grounds on which you want divorce?