Legal Question in Family Law in India
hii sir i belong to jammu and kashmir..i have done love marriage to a guy in arya samaj mandir delhi in january,2010..that boy is from rajasthan..my family doesn't know about my this marriage..after one month of marriage he has gone to uae for his job assuring me that he will call me there soon..but within few days i came to know that he was already married to girl in noida..but he didnot took along with him to uae..when i went there i ask him about his marriage ..and he told me everythng added that he want to stay with me only and will get divorce from his first wife...his marriage was solemnised in june 2009 just 7 mnths before our marriage...since then he and me are living in uae as husband and wife but till now no questionn regarding his divorce from his first wife has arised..he always ask me give me sum tym..his family know about our marriage but his first wife and her family dont know about his second marriage..i now want to know that what is my current status ..m i consider as married or not...? i mean is our marriag valid or not...? and what if he wont take divorce fromm his first wife...? can i claim maintenance because now my family will also not accept me and i have no way to live...? what are my rights here in this case...? and above all i actually and seriously loved him alot and i really want to be with him..is there any way to live with him..? our marriage is not registered yet will it of any effect..plz plz help me out and reply me soon
3 Answers from Attorneys
It is surprising to read that now you are residing at UAE along with your Husband. If so are you under his sponsorship? whether you are working or only a housewife? How did he manage to bring you here, without any Marriage Documents? Do you have any Marriage Certificate? Does his Passport mention your name as his wife? What about your Passport, does it contain his name? Do you have any child? Beware that in UAE, you will get caught in legal twists, if you say that you are not Husband and Wife legally.
What about his 1st Wife, is she not in contact with him? Presuming both of you to be Hindus by religion, if the 1st wife had a valid Marriage, your Marriage would be illegal. Only after he gets the 1st Wife divorced through a Court of Law, only then can he Marry you legally. You would not be eligible for maintenance, but if you have a child, it would be eligible for Maintenance.
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My first concern is answers to your questions. Your marriage with the young man is not a valid marriage. In fact you are not his lawful wedded wife. In fact, the young man has committed not only crime of bigamy but has also committed forgery by concealing the fact of earlier marriage and by submitting false documents before the Arya Samaj Mandir at the time of his marriage. (Assuming he submitted an affidavit). First Wife has the right to take action against the husband, since she is the lawful wedded wife. On what grounds your husband will ask divorce? He has no grounds unless first wife agrees for mutual consent. The remedy has many big if if if if if if if if if if if if ! First he should get divorce from first wife. He must marry with you after the divorce. Mere divorce of husband from first wife will not make your marriage legal.
I agree. However, your status and rights/options are :
(a) Your marriage is void - your status is that of "live-in" together outside of marriage.
(b) You may be entitled to not only maintenance but also damages under D.V.A.
(c) You may take an immediate action against your husband by - separating from him and then lodging a criminal complaint of cheating. If you do not do that now, your may loose your right of taking criminal action of cheating (420) as your living with him will amount to "condonation" of his fault.
You need to take appropriate decision at the earliest.
His wife (or first wife) is entitled to maintenance as also inheritance rights.