Legal Question in Family Law in India

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Need Suggestion, I am a software consulatant earning 55k per month , my wife also a educated and working women earnink 50k per month , God was gifted us resently(1month) a beautiful baby girl. Hear i am giving happend things past 1 year after our Marriage ,We both are married last 2009 August .Before Marraige at the time of intial Mets of both familys i said clearly that lady about my self and my Family that we are Combained family, at the time she agreed fully she is ok for that , In intial seremeny she dressed up with full make up, ( I didn't observed any thing due to traditional issues) after that when in engajment seremeny i found bad (only on Phgsical appiarense) i felt bad , i requested my all family members not to continue , as family elders told to me that already for that lady after enjagment marriage was cancilled , once agin if we do like that it's very bad for her family and so...., Due to her personal concerneds a made my maind that marry her , After Marrigae really my life is Horribule the day first she came to my home she Scoled my fmaily Elder (This i came to know after my Wife told about her mistek)..i said not to do.After intial marriage days like after a week she told she had more than 6 lakhs Debts are there , i am really shoked !, i asked Why don't your family members not informed before this ,she said they informed when i asked my family members they said the told only 3lakhs debts that to for her marraige ....once again i calm down i said to my wife that you are earning your money so that you clear off all the debts ..i am not botherd about money (she very happy at the time)....for there mopnths are going oneday she abused me for small family issue like hell .. i am really confused outof control .Her parents are came to my home and said sorry to family members what about she did . after a month she started that she need seperate house , i said what is the requirment as she is pregnent , i am also new and younger in family, at the time my younger brother said to me that it will be difficult for her to go office and come back ,so better take one small house near to her office ..i agreed and taken one seperate house eventhoug it is very hard to leave all family members and go...After taking seperate house GOD she made my life real horrible ...for small small issues she goes to room hours she will sit with out resbonding ...reall every day my life made hell.....every day my tears are coming out ... one final day i got full frustated and called up my mother said i am not in postion to continue with her ..let inform her family members and took back to her home as she is pregnent , it not good for our baby and for her also. Her family members came to our place and really after they came i understand why she behaving like this ?

1) She is not intrested to do any house hold work?

2) her mother and father should stay for life long hear?

3) I have to give entiremy monthly salary to her hand?

God.....Even thoug i am not yet asked about her salary any time ....Ther her father every month come to our place collect his monthly bill for his life , as he is in apostion to wrk for hime self. Even though i am not bothred about that , i felt every body is my family...

After her parents came to my place ..one fine day generally i asked some 25 k urgently ..she said its my money ? ...i asked her parantes why always she is running back of money ? Why she is doing job? when i said its not required for me?..like some q? ..her father and mother raised their voices upon me and said she is doing job for our self .. i am really surpriced and said then why you did this marriage ...youcan keep her in your house ,i dont want her ....immidiatley iam taken my belongigs and started to go my elder brother home ....suddenly these person my in-law and uncle croossed my way and said sorry on road. I felt my self petty and went back inside ...that day and coming seven days they are silent .. suddenly one day they took her with out informing any body to native.after that once again a new story started .

After she went back to her native place ..we kept silent and calm ..but one day i called up her to enquire about health? ..nice she talked very good , i am also happy.

after two day once agian new fight on small petty isssues ?................still this continuing.

Finally she came out with one more condistion ..she needs my salary ...well in that my eleder brother taken up the call told her not worry about the money ...if you want i will give my salary also , you can run family happly ? at the time she kept quite ? ...after a day once again money..money....i said i am not intrested on those issues .. as i am intrested to achive some thing in life .

afetr 5 months gap her father once again met my family elder and said sorry and catched up legs ...My eleders said strictly how maney time you will do this ? First, talk to your Daugter and if she listen your words tell her that she has obey the family traditions.At the time he said what ever you said she will fallow please ,let her welcome back to home . When we are in Dailama Suddenly my marraige one year is over with sweet BABY.

When ever she commits mistek , her father comes and catches our leg ...we are really frustated with these cheep actions ...Finally i told her Father that call your family Elders we all sit once and Talk face to face ..let who ever doing mistek we will rectify this .He agreed and said once their family members are ready i will call up and inform you . I said ok...( Hope the Serail is going to be closed)....But Sudden shock.....She is Planning to go for a Wepon Dowarey case.......

A t the time of talking i said her only one thing leave your job ..come and see baby and myself ..What ever we both will face not alone . Be happy and made my self happy,....(May be she is not understand)

I need you help ...how to continue with this lady , how to handile this false case ( hope she wont do this wrong , still i have trust on Marraige) if then how to handile .But one thing if she fails then she wont step back once again....only i am thinking about My baby who does not know this falls and egoist things about their paprents .

Even though i am traying for one good solustion in bitween allelders ...she is not understanding and calling their elders .

Need solustion :

1) How to handile these Fals cases as i am not at all bothered about her money

2) If she comes back to stay in future how should i take any legal step on her debts and she is mentally distrbed thing what evr she is doing at the time of alone.

3) How to stop her parents not to interfier in my family

4)How should i save my family people including my kidd

5) Is there any legal rule is their to contorl these unmetured ladys'

please suggest me ...where both familys can leave happily

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