Legal Question in Family Law in India
Marriage Problems
I got married in July 2006. Since then my In laws are always interferring in my married Life. In the beginning they used to come everytime we had small quarrels and used to take away my wife. I used to have difficulties in bring her back and they used to give me all kind of reasons for not sending her. After that in the month of March 2007 while was 2 Months pregnant he had a small quarrel and during this time also my inlaws interferred and took her away saying they would send her back in 3-4 days. Every time i used to ask then to send her back they continued to give me reasons. Even after the birth of my child they kept her. Finally we decided to visit her place and tried to resolve the dispute and finally they agreed to send her on 9th July 2008 (Almost after 16 months). During this time i have also taken a new flat because she did not want to live with my Mom. Now again in the month of January i took her to my inlaws place because of her brother's marriage on 11th Feb 2009. After the marriage she is not willing to return back. I have changed my job and am travelling to new place. I wanted her to accompany me but she is refusing. I am not able to convince her. her parents are telling they can send only if she agrees. Please help
3 Answers from Attorneys
Re: Marriage Problems
(A) You should make ALL OUT EFFORTS to bring her back on her terms;
(B) DO NOT CONSIDER litigation or legal help as a solution to the problem; that may rather complicate your life and result in wasting money and energy;
(C) Try to reason with her one to one as far as possible. It is not even three years of marriage; she may need her own space and may be depending mostly upon her parents for advice and support. You should try to be her mentor and support and convince her so that she could rely upon you for anything she may need - emotional as also other support.
YOU CAN AND SHOULD SAVE YOUR MARRIAGE by making whole hearted efforts in the right direction.
Advice : NO LITIGATION.
Re: Marriage Problems
Hello
Good Afternoon!
1. Compromise on her terms which should be within the reasonable limits.
2. Make her understand that entering into litigation or court is not the solution to the problem.
3. You should make her promise that you would be always giving emotional support.
All the Best!
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Re: Marriage Problems
Try to compromise.
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