Legal Question in Family Law in India

I was married in May 09. It was arranged marriage. After marriage I found she is very cunning as she was very reluctant to have sex. Also I found her avoiding pregnency by secretly consuming contraceptive/emergency pills etc. Upon enquiring she is saying I should win her heart and then only she will cooperate to have sex/kids etc. I made all efforts to win her heart and I got convinced she is damn smart and making me fool. Her interest is not to lead a marital life and insted only to roam around and live in the way she wants. It is a black mail. How it possible for me to legally force her to conceive and give birth to my child?


Asked on 10/23/09, 11:29 am

3 Answers from Attorneys

marital life is a long time and permanent process. you are just married.may 2009.you have to wait for some period. you are lucky you are married. how many are in the waiting list.

for sex/kids etc.., you have to be patience. coming to religious facts most of the religious philosophers comments that goddess Lakshmi never got kids if so her beauty will failed. hence god narayana gave birth to brahma through his naabhi. though its myth but acceptable facts can be found. time will teaches the lesson. when you got marry you lost your freedom. respect your partners feelings. note that you are under her shelter for time being. later she will never cross your voice. you have to prove that you are a good husband. dont take hasty steps which spoils your personal life. you are having much time. dont forget that you are just married.

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Answered on 10/23/09, 1:48 pm
RAJIV GUPTA (Cell: +91 9811284735) [email protected]

i think you are acting in a very childish manner and your wife is quite mature. in case she does not want to conceive without getting prepared for it, what is the harm in it. why are you insisting upon child. it may be so that she wants to convince herself that you are capable of taking up the responsibilities. dont force pregnancy on her and let the right time when she herself agrees for it.

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Answered on 10/24/09, 2:03 am
Sudershan Goel India Law Offices of Sudershan Goel - Advocate

You may need some counselling; it appears you were premature for marriage. she is right in telling you to win her heart first. you should think of sex only when she demands; stay cool and try changing your attitude. avoid litigation.

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Answered on 11/15/09, 2:39 pm


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