Legal Question in Family Law in India

how I can meet my childerns
Dear sir,
I am in very big problem, i had got my marridge in 1995 after marridge my wife never suport me and my family and we both live out of my home on rent from 1997,but she was not happy with me ,inthe year of 1998 and 1999 she gone to her village without my permission for 1.5year but my fathe and all family member are very simple so he gone to my wife s vilage and return with my wife and my daughter(she was born in 1996) after some year now in march 2008 once more she had gon her village with your all goods and my daughter and my son (he was born in 2001) now i am in very big tention and i had apply for devorce and she want expendeture arround 11000 thousend p.m i have no so income she had fill your it return also 125000 and now teaching in public school i had fill my IT return arround 1 lack now what i do,
2nd thing i had gone 2 time for meet my childern but she and her father mother never meet me from my childern,
now my daughter's birthday was on 5th oct.and i gone her school for meet my daughter but scool pricipal not allow me for meet my wife too there she is employee in this school,mene pricipal se bahut jhagda kiya lekin usne mujhe police case karne ki dhamki di or mujhe bachho se nahi milne diya me kya karu pls tel

Asked on 10/06/08, 1:08 am

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Sudershan Goel India Law Offices of Sudershan Goel - Advocate

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Re: how I can meet my childerns

You have 13 years of married life; an educated wife; and two wonderful children.

In order to save your family life, better you compromise with your wife and bring her back. she had lived with you from 1997 - 2008 without any problem;

Try to make your atmosphere so as to accommodate her as per her wishes.

The litigation will be tiring, unhappy and costly with results uncertain. it will harm your entire family. avoid court, or police; involve family freinds and/or relatives, if required. better you go to her directly, and persuade her, without your ego coming in, for living happily with you and children.

Answered on 10/06/08, 9:34 am

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RAJIV GUPTA (Cell: +91 9811284735) [email protected]

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you did a mistake in filing the divorce petition. in a way you have blown a trivial matter out of proportion. if you really want your family back, u must communicate with them either yourself or through your parents. try to patch up the matter by sorting out the reason because of which she had to leave your house along with her children. you seem to be quite confused as on one hand you file a divorce petition and on the other hand, you complain of she not allowing you meet the children. first try out the communication method, if nothing works out...withdraw your divorce petition and file an RCR instead. you may also file a petition for custody of children and you will get the visitation rights, if not custody.

Answered on 10/06/08, 2:10 am

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