Legal Question in Family Law in India
Hello sir thanks for ur last ans.as I know my husbnd nagesh is so cruel wth me,that�s why I m fed of him.but in 2nd part as I told I was in love wth othr guy(it was my mistake)but as I realise it wont b possible for middel class person.so me & my love decided to b separate & now we are just a frnd as I take sum advice frm him also.now he is going to marry in dec or may2012. but from my point of view its wrong if I continue my relation wth that guy.so we are separate but we are good frnd & we contact once in a mnth.but as I told my husbdn is mentally sick & I cant live my life wth him.for divorce he says live wth me otherwise I vll kill that guy or legally I vll punish him.but he dnt hv any proof abt us.only 1-2 time his frn saw us near hosp wen by mom was admit & 2nd wen i went my old office for PF purpose. Now I m scared what should I do.bcoz I cant liv wth him & for divorce he givs such danger warnings.pls hlp me.bcoz I m alone wth my mom.their is no support.& now I think that sucite is the best way.i noe im wrong but what can I do???pls
3 Answers from Attorneys
Hi,
Sorry to say, but this is a legal forum. We provide legal advices not personal ones. With respect your query, its your personal problem, and as a Indian Married Women, you must know your responsibilities. If you understand you are going wrong, better apologize soon, and try correcting the mistake. If you cant live with him, and if your boyfrd is going to marry other girl-they what is your future plan/status? just think upon this. And yes, you are not only destroying your own life, but destroying life of all 3.
Regards,
suicide is for coward. you are a brave girl. you are intelligent. you have already severed your relationship. At the cost of repetition, please note that your sms is not a issue. if your husband friend saw you twice be it may near hospital or PF office, that is not a offence. stop worrying on that front.
you only have to decide if you want to live with your husband or not. if not, you may file for divorce. do not go by any threat. have faith in god. have faith in system. you may get legal aid, if you cannot afford a lawyer. you go to the office of legal aid in your district and they will provide you a free lawyer. you may ask for a lady lawyer, if you so desire.
answer of your problem is you only. so ask u r self and do as u wish