Legal Question in Family Law in India
Wife harassing...
My House Wife spending much whole month, and than asking more and more money for House Hold Expences,also harrasing my widow mother when I am at my offoce. When I refuses to give money, she blackmails me to involve relatives, neighbours or Police. What should I do?
8 Answers from Attorneys
Re: Wife harassing...
good morning
well in this case you have a talk with your wife regarding her problem why she is doing like this and make her understand that this can result into a criminal offence regarding mental harrasment and make realise that marriage is a sacrament.
even if she is not ready to co-operate then you consult a good attorney and file a divorce.. take care
Re: Wife harassing...
Your question does not merit an answer in these coloumns. It is not the job of lawyer to advise you as to how you interact with your wife or how you manage your relations with your wife. I can only suggest that if there has come a situation when you feel you cant live with her anymore, file a divorce petition.
Re: Wife harassing...
Keep your mind cool and tackle the problem peacefully & gently to avoid mental torture and harrassment otherwise your matrimonial life will be spoil. Take into confidence all your and your wife relaions.
Last resort is take divorce on the of cruelty and for that collect the documents and proof against your wife. For further query contact me
Re: Wife harassing...
show love to her and make as many videos as u can wherein she threats you and troubles you.
create evidence of her threats and then you can pressurise her to settle down or else you will show it to the police and get her arrested and all.
i hope she will calm down.
best of luck
For further advice you please contact me personally alongwith documents. Consultation charges will apply.
Re: Wife harassing...
talk to her - find what or who is behind it? tell her that harassing the in-laws will amount to criminal case! - do not threaten her! tell her the way she'll understand!
if you cannot tolerate any further consult a lawyer and get a divorce!
Re: Wife harassing...
try reasoning with her; go for counselling;
legal action is not recommended at this stage.
if you need further advice, please write me more details about date and place of marriage; qualificatin and occupation of both of you and your families; and living standards etc.
Re: Wife harassing...
Your wife is taking wrongfull advantage of your weakness.you must have to take a firm stand and donot let her to pressurise you any more.You refuse her illegal /unreasonable demand of money and if possible collect evidences of her threat etc.and let her go to police.There are preventive measures. consult a lawyer of your area or contact me with all details.
Re: Wife harassing...
YOu have to give money to her in cheque so that she withdraws herself and spends money, keep the bills for which she has purchased and if possible write a letter to your in-laws about her compliants and speak to them about her spending and tell them to advise, involve more of her relatives and amicably settle things, if it still does not work out file a written compliant with police with all the proof of documents and visit women organisation and appraise them about her attitude.
B.Balasubramanya.
Advocate.