Legal Question in Civil Litigation in India

You can file a comprehensive suit for injunction and damages against your parents for their acts.

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Setu Niket

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04.02.2013

Dear Sir / Madam,

Never forget that what you are today is because of your parents.

Blaming Heredity never helps. There is no doubt but that some parents fail in family duty and lack the ability to bring up their children as mature, emotionally self-sustaining adults. They are often guilty of over-protection, over-nagging, or over-discipline. Too many of us have not been trained in childhood to expect disappointments, nor taught to react to them successfully. A good part of this responsibility falls upon our parents.

However, there is a tendency amongst many of us to assume a fatalistic attitude and hold our parents accountable for everything.

"When a person continually focuses upon his unhappy childhood and the irreparable injury his parents did to him, there is more wrong with him than with his parents."

Follow these nine commonsense rules -

Rule One : Don't use the incompatibility of your parents as an excuse for your own inadequacies. Whether you realize it or not, you are directly or indirectly responsible for everything that happens to you.

Rule Two : Make a list of your parents' personality-liabilities. Remind yourself not to imitate them. Neuroticism is contagious, not inherited.

Rule Three : If you are a parent, or about to become one, give your children what you yourself may have been deprived of - a feeling of independence and emotional security.

Rule Four : Overcompensate for what you might consider a handicap by learning to be of some service to the World. Put purpose in your life.

Rule Five : Heed the advice of Douglas Lurton, author of "Make the most of your Life" : "Take the tools at hand and carve your own best life."

Rule Six : Don't become the fact that you are not a Nobel Prize winner. Success is not always a matter of fame or fortune. You don't have to be brilliant to be normal.

Rule Seven : Stop behaving like a man-child, one who has never been able to detach himself from his mother's apron strings. When a man displays an excessive attachment to his family, particularly his mother, it should be a warning sign. It means marrying someone who will try to be half-husband and half-son and who will make a bad job of both.

Rule Eight : Stop being a child-woman, one who is extremely sensitive and possessive, requires a lot of attention and is emotionally immature.

Rule Nine : Correct any erroneous conception you might have about "inherited traits." Stop rationalizing that you are a "chip of the old block", that you came from a "Bad Seed," that it must be in your blood and therefore you can't do anything about it. The kind of thinking you do today determines the kind of living you do tomorrow. So decide today the kind of a person you want to be tomorrow. Stop blaming Fate.

You can also mail me at [email protected] for further counselling and advice.

Regards,

Legal action costs. This is due to your emotional outburst at the moment. Think with a cool head and you will realize futility of litigation.

How will you prove, what evidence do you have also needs to be examined.

Ideally - in family - one should not fight.