Legal Question in Sexual Harassment in India
Dear Sir,
I am in relationship with one person,and initially he manuplate me strongly and he take benefit of that situation.he committed me for marriage. and we involve in relationship,as at initial stage we are in same company and now both work change.....now a days his behaviour is changed he is not responding i tried a lot to comuunicate every now and then he says i am busy..............his family member also about me ,as the result of relations i am pregnant too....now he says i am having many problems and firrst you abort this thing and after ward we discuss on that.
i am so upset and not confident what to do.....i trust on him and love him alot.........if he deny me only way left is sucide........as two months already passed and after a month abortion is also not possible.................
i want to marry him at any cost...........my poilte ,request, or by law.please suggest me how i proceed in this matter..................your guidance save someone life.
as if i abort then,after this i can file a case against him
under which act he will be charged.
regards
4 Answers from Attorneys
these all pity indian women are facing these problems after they were lenient in sexual intercourse before legal marriage . first you decide that you can cohabit and live with him for long time when he is having cheating character. If can't , what is the use of loving him? as per law, you can file the criminal case against him. But, after filing , what will be the consequences of your life as well as his life. Suppose , if he is prejudiced only about that, how will you face your problems in future even though he got married subsequently. think so many ankles whereas committing suicide is the worst thing in the world after birth. it is not with our hands but with only nature's hands. be bold and confident to face each and every problem as we are born only for that. no life without war . here war means not war between countries but between we and problems which come to our life-end. if everybody commits suicide instead of facing problem , by this time , there won't be human being in this world. Only problems are billions and billions. But, solution is one and the same for each and every problem . that is 1.ALWAYS FACE THE PROBLEM, 2. ANALISE THE PROBLEM, 3. ATTACK THE PROBLEM, THAT IS ALL.
LET NATURE BLESS YOU.
First of all talk to him and told him that if his parents will come to your house and fix your marriage only then you will abort else, you are going to police for 420 and Rape and coz his family also blessed you as her daughter in law hence they are also culprits, so their names will also be involve in the FIR, else he should marry you also told him that you are going to talk about your pregnancy to his parents (Plz keep in mind that never tell about your pregnancy to his parents untill very very necessary else they will never agreed for this marriage, as such type of facts give very bad impression on elders coz it proves that how cheap your feelings are that without marriage you share you bed, they must doubt and presume that it may be happen that you would have share your bed with someone else also, coz the girl who cannot control herself to go to any persons bed it clearly proves that he has no strong will and she has no ethic values and no respect for elders respect then how she can respect elders of your family).
Further ask his family members for arrange marriage and put some excuse to be hurry else your parents will marry you somewhere else.
IF he or his family members did not agrees then you have left only one option, approach the police and file your complaint and then abort the child immediately.
But plz improve your will and show your love and affection only after marriage only to the person who took your responsiblity and love you also.
Good luck
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Go and talk to him personally.....!!
Your legal rights are:
a) You may claim maintenance for yourself and the child;
b) You may claim "shared accommodation", if you can prove "live-in" relationship.
Appropriate opinion may also depend upon perusal of entire communications exchanged between the two of you - oral, written, e-mails etc.
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