Legal Question in Family Law in Indiana
Moving to Floida, joint custody
My ex-husband and I share joint custody of our 12 year old daughter. I want to move to Florida and take my daughter with me. I have family there and more family is moving there. My ex says ''NO!'' His life seems to be more ''stable'' than mine. My daugter has stated that she does not want to live with him. My question is, how does a judge decide if I can move to Florida and take my daughter? Does my daughter have any say in who she lives with? How does a judge decide who gets custody?
1 Answer from Attorneys
Re: Moving to Floida, joint custody
You say you share joint custody. Is that joint legal custody or joint physical custody?
The age at which the judge gives great weight to where a child wants to live is 14. However, your daughter is close to that age, so he would at least listen to what she has to say.
As far as a move, if you are moving more than 100 miles away, you must secure permission from the court for the move. The move has to be based on reasons such as a better job, health needs, etc. It cannot be based on a desire to "get away" from the other spouse or to complicate visitation.
If the judge OKs the move, then you will obviously have a different visitation schedule than the guidelines provide. Those details can be worked out by agreement or by court order.
You should be aware that if you DO move away, there's a much greater chance that the court will order that your daughter visit your husband for lengthy periods, such as an entire summer.
Or he might decide to change the custody arrangements, though that's less likely if she is doing well with you, seems happy, is doing well in school, etc.
You will definitely need to get an attorney involved in this situation.
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