Legal Question in Family Law in Indonesia

Guidance reqiuired urgent

Dear Sirs,

please help me out

I got married with my wife on 25 TH of Nov. 2008. after that there were many crashes between me & har till dete she has troubled a lot to me & my famili nowadays she is doing police complaints for torchering her phisically she is hurting her by her own & is showing that I hav ehurted her & making complaints I am not understanding what she wants. She is also saying always that she will not let me & my family members survive properly u dont know the law i will harress u by using the law. & she is doing all these things against me. i am really in lots of depression please help me out

What can i do?

at present she is staying with me with my family?

we are not at all hurting her neither phisically nor mentally she is doing whatever she wants even then she is doing this wrong things against me.

sir is there any procedure to protect ourself legally ?

bcoz i am afraid that she will create wounds to her by her own & make complaints on me & my family.

Please help me as soon as possible.

I want to tell u that because of all these misbehaviour of my wife non of our & her relatives are supporting her in this matter eccept her father & some of my familiar enymies.

she is totally misus


Asked on 10/17/08, 4:08 am

3 Answers from Attorneys
Nandita Haldipur Haldipur Associates

Re: Guidance reqiuired urgent

date of marraige given by you appears to be wrong . you can file for divorce

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Answered on 11/22/08, 2:12 am
Sudershan Goel India Law Offices of Sudershan Goel - Advocate

Re: Guidance reqiuired urgent

well, you have painting her black is only one sided version. you may please try to find out why has she turned into like this? you may need a little introspection. In normal course, no girl will misbehave after marriage if she receives adequate care, love and affection from her husband.

The present situation described by you can be handled ONLY with proper care, love and affection. Just try to assuage her hurt feelings and bring her back to normalcy. No police or legal action may be helpful at this stage.

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Answered on 10/17/08, 7:38 am
Aniruddha Pawse Aniruddha.P.Pawse Advocates

Re: Guidance reqiuired urgent

Your marriage date cannot be 25/09/08 which is yet to come.You can apply for Divorce and there are ways out of it so contact a local good senior lawyer.

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Answered on 10/17/08, 11:37 am


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