Legal Question in Family Law in Iowa

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I'm 18 and pregnant. The father wants to be involved but has not been around during most my pregnancy which in someways is my fault. I understand he has a right to be in the childs life and the child has a right to know his dad. But he is really irresponsible and says he likes having a life with no responisibility. He doesnt have a job and isnt trying to get a job, he also parties a lot. He has recently moved out of state but his parents live here and when hes here he stays with them. Their house is really nasty and not suitable for a baby. I dont want my baby to be allowed over there or alone with the father without me around or someone I trust. Also if anything were to happen to me before the baby turns 18 I dont want him to get custidy. How can i make sure this baby will be ok and none of what i listed can happen?


Asked on 7/12/09, 10:06 pm

1 Answer from Attorneys
Robert Luedeman solo practitioner

Re: ??

The question's moot because you haven't given birth yet. Maybe you need to cross that bridge when you get to it. The birth of a child has had a sobering effect on many party boys. You'll have custody when the child is born, but if you want support or anything like that you'll have to go to court for a custody and support order.

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Answered on 7/12/09, 10:17 pm


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