Legal Question in Family Law in Maine
Contempt
A judge ordered my ex-wife to turn over personal property to me nearly 5 years ago. I was ordered to make financial payments. I have done so and she has not returned my property despite my requests.
Her lawyer at one point (4 years ago) sent me a letter stating my ex-wife would not return the property until I made more payments. Again, I have made payments as ordered.
Is my ex-wife in contempt?
Is her lawyer aiding in contempt by helping to defy the order and not encouraging her client to return the property?
Is her lawyer in violation of ABA professional standards? Is a complaint to the ABA or state chapter in order?
I now live in a different state (FL) from where the order was made (ME).
1 Answer from Attorneys
Re: Contempt
If your ex is still in ME, then the Maine order still controls and it is immaterial where you reside. If your wife has not complied with the language of the final judgment, then she is probably in contempt. However, if you have not been making payments as ordered, you are equally in contempt and if you file a motion for contempt, you can expect her to file a cross-motion against you. Motions for contempt can be tricky; the moving party must demonstrate contempt by a "clear and convincing" standard. You may be better off filing a Motion to Enforce the Judgment. The standard of evidence for such a motion is the standard "preponderance of evidence" standard, i.e., you must prove your case by 51%. If the Judgment language is clear, it sounds like you would have a clear case.
With respect to your ex-wife's attorney, I think you should probably pick your battles and concentrate on the dispute at hand. If you truly believe that the attorney has violated any Rules of Professional Conduct, you should review the website of Maine's Bar of Overseers.
If you would like to pursue the motion to enforce, please do not hesitate to contact me.