Legal Question in Family Law in Maine

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i have a child with my ex girlfriend and i pay 100.00 dollars a week for child support. i also have joint custody. i take my daughter on wednesday nights and i have her friday night till monday morning. the mother has threatened myself and the person i am seeing. she has threatened to move out of state with our child and have people beat me and my new girlfriend up. i have not made any remarks towards her. i really cant afford a laywer. we have not gone to court these terms we choosen by myself and the mother. i fear for my safety and the people around me. i dont want to lose my daughter. i dont know what to do. please help.

thank you--name removed--hebert


Asked on 2/27/09, 10:20 am

1 Answer from Attorneys

Jerome Gamache Ainsworth Thelin & Raftice, P.A.

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If you fear for your safety and the safety of your child, you should consider obtaining a Protection From Abuse Order against your ex-girlfriend. The clerks at the Court will help you with this process or you can visit the Pine Tree Legal Assistance website at http://www.ptla.org/ptlasite/familyindex.htm.

From your query, it is unclear whether the child support and visitation schedule you and your ex-girlfriend adhere to are the result of a court order. If these arrangements are not pursuant to a court order, then you may want to consider bringing a �parental rights and responsibilities� action against your ex-girlfriend. Such an action would probably provide you with greater legal protection with respect to your daughter. The Pine Tree Legal Assistance is an excellent source for people who would like to file their own family matter cases. Two helpful areas of the Pine Tree Legal Assistance�s website that may be very helpful with regard to a parental rights action are: http://www.ptla.org/ptlasite/cliented/family/Divorce.htm; and http://www.ptla.org/ptlasite/forms/prr.htm

If you would like to discuss this in more detail, please do not hesitate to contact me.

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Answered on 3/03/09, 4:20 pm


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