Legal Question in Family Law in Maine
My Rights
i have been married for almost 8 years 6&1/2 I have been a stay at home mom taking care of 4 children 2 of which are ours and he has 1 and I have 1 I also care for the home (we obtained during our marriage) at least 90% (My husbands job keeps him from home 5+ days a week) there has been a lot of verbal & emotional abuse mostly to me & my child but some has been to the others. It is becoming too much for me and the two oldest to handle. Do I have any rights to anything or should I just go and cut my losses? Also my husbands 14 yr old child wants to stay with me Do I have any rights in this area? Also where i am a stay at home mom and dont have any income at this time how can child support be calculated. If I leave the home is it considered abandonment? Sorry for all the questions I need legal advice and dont have means to pay for it. Thank you so much.
1 Answer from Attorneys
Re: My Rights
You raise many legal issues. I would need to talk to you to get the complete factual background before I could give you any meaningful advice. However, I can provide you with some general legal information.
Maine is a "no-fault" state; that is, one does not have to prove fault to obtain a divorce. The overwhelming majority of divorces are granted on the grounds of irreconcilable differences. Therefore, if you left the home, "abandonment," as a grounds for divorce, would not apply.
Maine has a fairly strong Protection from Abuse statute. If you can demonstrate that your husband is, in fact, abusing you, you will probably be able to obtain a protective order that would prevent him from having direct contact and could obtain temporary exclusive use and possession of the home until you are able to sort things out.
If you retain primary residence of the minor children (more than 50%), you will be entitled to child support. In Maine, child support is determined by a statutory chart that takes into account the combined gross income of the parents, the children's ages and other costs associated with the children. Although you presently have no income, unless you are 100% disabled you could work. Therefore, a court would probably impute a certain income to you, at least minimum wage.
The issue of your husband's child is a sticky one. From your question, it isn't clear whether or not the child's biological mother is involved. Presumptively, you have no legal rights to that child.
I hope this information is helpful.