Legal Question in Family Law in Maryland

Husband had a vasectomy without wife's knowledge

I was told that my husband had a vasectomy. I do not know this for sure. We are currently separated, no papers signed. If he did this without my knowledge,what legal recorse do I have against him? How can I find out without seeing medical records?


Asked on 10/08/02, 7:27 pm

2 Answers from Attorneys

G. Joseph Holthaus III Law Offices of G. Joseph Holthaus

Re: Husband had a vasectomy without wife's knowledge

Just as marriage is a mutual promise and agreement, so is procreation.

On the other hand, the Equal Rights Amendment and its progeny has had some rather unanticipated results.

Just as a husband cannot force a wife to become pregnant (i.e., stop her from taking the pill) or force her to

bear a child to term (i.e., stop her from getting an abortion), so can a wife not force a husband to donate sperm (i.e., stop him

from getting a vasectomy).

If you do not have a separation agreement, matters over assets, health insurance, retirement benefits, and the like should be addressed. I am a skilled negotiator with reasonable fees for separation agreements.

I do not offer "fill in the blank" separation agreements for $150 as you see in local newspapers, rather the separation agreements that I prepare are tailored to your specific situation and protect your legal rights.

Call me for a free consultation.

G. Joseph Holthaus III

(410) 799-9002

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Answered on 10/10/02, 8:57 am
Robert Sher Wagshal and Sher

Re: Husband had a vasectomy without wife's knowledge

You have the same recourse against your husband that he would have against you if you had decided to have a tubal ligation--none. Everyone has the right to control their own body and to make their own medical decisions, except in very limited circumstances.

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Answered on 10/09/02, 1:32 pm


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